ASKING man listening to complaints or pour out his heart as hard as to bend an iron bar. According to one study, most men think discussing the issue just a waste of time.
That attitude did not just apply to adults. The study, which will be published in the journal Child Development, found that when I have to talk about their problems, boys seem to feel the same with a grown man.
''For years, popular psychologist insisted that boys and men actually want to talk about their problems, but restrained by the fear of shame and look weak,''said Amanda J. Rose, professor of psychology at the University of Missouri College of Arts and Science, as quoted shine.yahoo.com site.
''However, when we asked young people about how it feels to talk about their problems, the boys are not more anxious or stressed to discuss the problem than girls. In contrast, the response of the boys indicated that they simply do not view it as an activity to talk about really useful,''said Rose.
That attitude did not just apply to adults. The study, which will be published in the journal Child Development, found that when I have to talk about their problems, boys seem to feel the same with a grown man.
''For years, popular psychologist insisted that boys and men actually want to talk about their problems, but restrained by the fear of shame and look weak,''said Amanda J. Rose, professor of psychology at the University of Missouri College of Arts and Science, as quoted shine.yahoo.com site.
''However, when we asked young people about how it feels to talk about their problems, the boys are not more anxious or stressed to discuss the problem than girls. In contrast, the response of the boys indicated that they simply do not view it as an activity to talk about really useful,''said Rose.
Researchers from the University of Missouri to run four separate studies and gather information from and about nearly 2,000 children and adolescents. The results show, the girls told to talk about their problems make them feel cared for, understood, and not too lonely.
But, is not the case with boys. They did not worry that talking about their problems would lead to intimidation, and they do not avoid the discussion because he felt ashamed. Conversely, the study said,''The boys reported that talking about their problems will make them feel 'weird' and as' a waste of time. " ''
To discuss an issue that is difficult with a partner, the best effort you can do is find a middle way. If you've become a parent, begin when children are young.
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