Something unplanned does contain risk. Can fail, but not infrequently also ended successfully.
The hectic big city life is often a bottleneck for the husband and wife to plan a date. Especially when they both worked. The streets are jammed, crowded busy work, and children who can not be left behind, often times making the couple barely out of energy to enjoy both.
In fact, it rarely steal the time to chat on any night, the difficulty for mercy. What are the tricks that did not culminate with a failure?
Intimacy of husband and wife should continue to be maintained, so that marriage does not become arid. According Rostiana D. Nurjayadi, a psychologist at the University Tarumanagara Jakarta, if it does not allow for planned, it could not hurt to make dates a spontaneous order indehoy still have time for both.
The hectic big city life is often a bottleneck for the husband and wife to plan a date. Especially when they both worked. The streets are jammed, crowded busy work, and children who can not be left behind, often times making the couple barely out of energy to enjoy both.
In fact, it rarely steal the time to chat on any night, the difficulty for mercy. What are the tricks that did not culminate with a failure?
Intimacy of husband and wife should continue to be maintained, so that marriage does not become arid. According Rostiana D. Nurjayadi, a psychologist at the University Tarumanagara Jakarta, if it does not allow for planned, it could not hurt to make dates a spontaneous order indehoy still have time for both.
"As far as the marital relationship was not problematic, and both have a strong emotional bond, the dates can be spontaneous instead of small oases of cool," said Rostiana.
The reason these things usually lead to unplanned 'bang-bang' in the heart. It's very refreshing to married life already monotonous and routine.
No need to bother to plan a second honeymoon powerful, for example by going to romantic places outside the city or abroad. Besides needing a lot of costs, also need a special time to be designed well in advance. Therefore, continued Rostiana, alias dates dating spontaneous impromptu become an effective way out-and-certainly much more efficient. For example, go to a movie or trying a new restaurant, when they're relaxed schedule.
In addition to causing surprise, spontaneous things that usually will also lure back the spirit of human adventurers. Citing the theory of Transactional Analysis Eric Berne, Rostiana mention, basically human personality has three elements, namely elements of the children (play, adventurous, experimenting, everything is funny), mature elements (realistic, thoughtful), and the parent element ( protect, advise). These three elements are balanced so that a human needs can be psychologically healthy.
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