Facing The Jealous Friend

These enemies often get you in trouble, even to underestimate your achievements.

Apart from that, you enemies that envy can be an obstacle to progress your career, and they even develop a strategy to knock you down.

Co-workers are very envious heart can be easily identified because he will always compete with you in everything you do.

Enemy in the blanket will be waiting for an opportunity to expose the ugliness, failure, or mistakes that you did. This enemy type is the most dangerous enemy.

There are two basic ways to deal with a jealous co-workers, namely:
Tame envy them, or provide resistance to their efforts. Previously there are some questions you should answer in relation to the attitude of a jealous friend.

Are there any behaviors you are wrong? Did you do something that makes them jealous? Did you underestimate the co-worker or whether you brag of your success?

Above questions you should ask yourself if you do not want to make others hate you.

When you realize your shortcomings, try to change it. Be kind and humble. Build confidence by telling co-workers experience the success that you achieve and teach colleagues how to achieve a success.

If you used to be arrogant, change this attitude and try to make peace with your enemies. Show changes are sincere. For the sake of career, reputation, and mental health, you should avoid an argument or feeling unhealthy work environment.

When you perform an action because of worries about what will be done by a fellow worker of your career, this could instantly recognize them. Sincerely trying to do the change because it is a professional attitude.

Behave well in order to co-workers respect you Did you always want to win? There are no words too late to correct past mistakes and every person can do.

Be the person who always put the team that gave priority to work or his men. Nothing is more important than providing support to the people around you. Trying to distance themselves from envious colleagues who will actually make it more and more jealous and hate you.

Preventing jealousy

If you can identify co-workers or subordinates are not satisfied and can feel that he will probably hate you, you can prevent feelings of envy her. Occasionally give a compliment. Be humble and recognize her feelings of envy and anticipation.

Take time

A time to myself to congratulate fellow worker for the success they achieve. You yourself should try not to envy because envy is easily seen by others. When you have feelings of envy or show negative behavior, you will get a similar response.

To fight

If you are not able to tame the jealousy of fellow workers, you have to do something for the sake of your reputation. When you're vilified, you should be able to prove that what people say about you is not true. Do not reply to slander with slander because this only makes matters worse. Do not stop giving praise to a fellow worker of his achievement, always smiling and eager, hard work and avoid rumors and gossip.

Support from leadership

One thing to do when you will defend yourself is to seek the leadership support as this could make a jealous co-worker told you to be shy and do not dare to create trouble.

Do not weak and fragile

Discuss the problems you face with your boss in a closed room with an official manner. Express your concerns and always convey any progress that you feel. Your feelings of hurt as much as any act of a jealous friend, do not show you a weak attitude in front of superiors and friends.

Write down any dispute

Write down any problems that occur between you and your colleagues to be envious of evidence when required. Try to be professional. When he was being rude not to be affected and control yourself. When you are hooked to perform any act improperly then this will hurt your career.

Do not threaten

Avoid threatening stance or attitude that makes your enemy helpless. You need to remember that you are trying to avoid a big fight because it gave an opportunity for your enemy to retreat.

Give leeway to keep your relationship good. When your enemy suddenly being nice and friendly, you do not need to be suspicious. Maybe he's trying to apologize his way without sacrificing her pride. Should you receive such efforts so that your dispute is not tapered.

Do your best

Dealing with a jealous co-workers often get you in a difficult situation to avoid it. Try to be good team players and reduce feelings of envy them before problems arise. Anticipate everything that is negative as early as possible.